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\u0130nsan\u0131n yava\u015f yava\u015f yok olu\u015fu, d\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131ndan de\u011fil\u2026
\nD\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden hayat\u0131na ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201cyak\u0131n\u201dlar\u0131ndan ba\u015flar.
\nPsikoloji bunu romantize etmeden s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.
\nYan\u0131nda durdu\u011fun insanlar, kim oldu\u011funu sessizce yeniden yazar.
\nBeyin dedi\u011fin \u015fey, bulundu\u011fu ortam\u0131n duygusunu kopyalar.
\nS\u00fcrekli kayg\u0131l\u0131, ele\u015ftirel, huzursuz insanlar\u0131n i\u00e7inde kal\u0131rsan;
\nbir s\u00fcre sonra bunun senin duygun olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ay\u0131rt edemezsin.
\nHarvard\u2019\u0131n 80 y\u0131l\u0131 a\u015fk\u0131n s\u00fcredir devam eden Adult Development Study\u2019i \u00e7ok net:
\nMutlulu\u011fu ne para a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yor, ne stat\u00fc, ne de \u201cba\u015fard\u0131m\u201d dedi\u011fin anlar.
\nAs\u0131l belirleyici olan \u015fey, ili\u015fkilerinin kalitesi.
\nKiminle yan yana durdu\u011fun\u2026
\nkimin yan\u0131nda kendin olmaktan yorulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n.
\nAma i\u015fte oras\u0131 kar\u0131\u015f\u0131k.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her yak\u0131nl\u0131k \u015fifa de\u011fildir.
\nBaz\u0131 dostluklar ba\u011f\u0131rmaz, \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmaz; sessizce a\u015f\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r.
\nSeni k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclten \u015fakalar, g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez s\u0131n\u0131r ihlalleri, bitmeyen k\u0131yaslar\u2026
\n\u201cBir \u015fey yokmu\u015f\u201d gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr ama i\u00e7eride bir \u015feyler eksilmeye ba\u015flar.
\nVe zamanla beden bunu ta\u015f\u0131r: uykusuzluk, yorgunluk, i\u00e7 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131.
\nRuh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaln\u0131zca terapi randevular\u0131ndan ibaret de\u011fil.
\nKiminle konu\u015fabildi\u011fin kadar, kiminle susabildi\u011fin\u2026
\nKimin yan\u0131nda rol yapmadan var olabildi\u011fin de iyile\u015fmenin bir par\u00e7as\u0131.
\nGer\u00e7ek dostluk seni d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaz.
\nSana alan a\u00e7ar.
\nB\u00fcy\u00fcrken yan\u0131nda durur, h\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 kesmez.
\nHerkes \u201ciyi insan\u201d olabilir.
\nAma herkes sana iyi gelmez.
\nBazen en b\u00fcy\u00fck fark\u0131ndal\u0131k,
\nhayat\u0131ndan birilerini \u00e7\u0131karmakta de\u011fil\u2026
\nkendini onlardan geri almaktad\u0131r.
\n \u0131ndal\u0131kyolculu\u011fu<\/a><\/a><\/p>\n

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\u0130nsan\u0131n yava\u015f yava\u015f yok olu\u015fu, d\u00fc\u015fmanlar\u0131ndan de\u011fil\u2026
\nD\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden hayat\u0131na ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u201cyak\u0131n\u201dlar\u0131ndan ba\u015flar.
\nPsikoloji bunu romantize etmeden s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor.
\nYan\u0131nda durdu\u011fun insanlar, kim oldu\u011funu sessizce yeniden yazar.
\nBeyin dedi\u011fin \u015fey, bulundu\u011fu ortam\u0131n duygusunu kopyalar.
\nS\u00fcrekli kayg\u0131l\u0131, ele\u015ftirel, huzursuz insanlar\u0131n i\u00e7inde kal\u0131rsan;
\nbir s\u00fcre sonra bunun senin duygun olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ay\u0131rt edemezsin.
\nHarvard\u2019\u0131n 80 y\u0131l\u0131 a\u015fk\u0131n s\u00fcredir devam eden Adult Development Study\u2019i \u00e7ok net:
\nMutlulu\u011fu ne para a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yor, ne stat\u00fc, ne de \u201cba\u015fard\u0131m\u201d dedi\u011fin anlar.
\nAs\u0131l belirleyici olan \u015fey, ili\u015fkilerinin kalitesi.
\nKiminle yan yana durdu\u011fun\u2026
\nkimin yan\u0131nda kendin olmaktan yorulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n.
\nAma i\u015fte oras\u0131 kar\u0131\u015f\u0131k.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her yak\u0131nl\u0131k \u015fifa de\u011fildir.
\nBaz\u0131 dostluklar ba\u011f\u0131rmaz, \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmaz; sessizce a\u015f\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r.
\nSeni k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclten \u015fakalar, g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez s\u0131n\u0131r ihlalleri, bitmeyen k\u0131yaslar\u2026
\n\u201cBir \u015fey yokmu\u015f\u201d gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr ama i\u00e7eride bir \u015feyler eksilmeye ba\u015flar.
\nVe zamanla beden bunu ta\u015f\u0131r: uykusuzluk, yorgunluk, i\u00e7 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131.
\nRuh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaln\u0131zca terapi randevular\u0131ndan ibaret de\u011fil.
\nKiminle konu\u015fabildi\u011fin kadar, kiminle susabildi\u011fin\u2026
\nKimin yan\u0131nda rol yapmadan var olabildi\u011fin de iyile\u015fmenin bir par\u00e7as\u0131.
\nGer\u00e7ek dostluk seni d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaz.
\nSana alan a\u00e7ar.
\nB\u00fcy\u00fcrken yan\u0131nda durur, h\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 kesmez.
\nHerkes \u201ciyi insan\u201d olabilir.
\nAma herkes sana iyi gelmez.
\nBazen en b\u00fcy\u00fck fark\u0131ndal\u0131k,
\nhayat\u0131ndan birilerini \u00e7\u0131karmakta de\u011fil\u2026
\nkendini onlardan geri almaktad\u0131r.
\n \u0131ndal\u0131kyolculu\u011fu<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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