{"id":739,"date":"2026-02-09T16:04:35","date_gmt":"2026-02-09T16:04:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/?p=739"},"modified":"2026-02-09T16:04:35","modified_gmt":"2026-02-09T16:04:35","slug":"belki-de-mesele-basina-bir-sey-gelmemesi-degil-basina-gelenle-durust-bir-iliski-kurabilmek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/?p=739","title":{"rendered":"Belki de mesele ba\u015f\u0131na bir \u015fey gelmemesi de\u011fil, ba\u015f\u0131na gelenle d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir ili\u015fki kurabilmek.…"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Belki de mesele ba\u015f\u0131na bir \u015fey gelmemesi de\u011fil, ba\u015f\u0131na gelenle d\u00fcr\u00fcst bir ili\u015fki kurabilmek.
\nBu c\u00fcmleyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde akl\u0131ma hep \u015fu geliyor:
\n\u0130nsan kendini ne san\u0131yor ve ne olmaya raz\u0131?
\nDiyelim ki bir domatessiniz.
\nTaze, diri, b\u00fct\u00fcn\u2026
\nHerkesin kolayca tan\u0131mlad\u0131\u011f\u0131, tek bir formda sevdi\u011fi h\u00e2linizle.
\nSonra hayat geliyor.
\nBir bask\u0131, bir a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131k, bir el\u2026
\nEziliyorsunuz.
\n\u0130\u015fte tam orada soru ba\u015fl\u0131yor.
\n\u201cBen art\u0131k ne oldum?\u201d de\u011fil,
\n\u201cBen \u015fimdi ne yapaca\u011f\u0131m?\u201d
\n\u00c7o\u011fumuz o anda \u015funu soruyor:
\n\u201cEzildim\u2026 Art\u0131k \u00e7\u00f6pe mi at\u0131laca\u011f\u0131m?\u201d
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zihnimiz h\u00e2l\u00e2 eski formumuza tak\u0131l\u0131.
\nDomates de\u011filsem, ben de\u011filim san\u0131yoruz.
\nOysa sal\u00e7a olmak, domatesin ink\u00e2r\u0131 de\u011fil.
\nOnun yo\u011funla\u015fm\u0131\u015f h\u00e2li.
\nKayna\u011f\u0131 ayn\u0131, katk\u0131s\u0131 ba\u015fka.
\nForm de\u011fi\u015fiyor ama \u00f6z kaybolmuyor.
\nBir meyve oldu\u011fumuzu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim.
\nNas\u0131l olursak olal\u0131m, sonunda yenilece\u011fiz.
\nBunu biliyoruz.
\n\u00d6lece\u011fimizi bildi\u011fimiz h\u00e2lde ya\u015famak gibi bu.
\nO zaman as\u0131l mesele \u015fu de\u011fil mi:
\nNas\u0131l bir tat b\u0131rakaca\u011f\u0131m?
\nTek ba\u015f\u0131na, tek \u00f6\u011f\u00fcnl\u00fck bir par\u00e7a m\u0131 olmay\u0131 se\u00e7erim?
\nSadece kahvalt\u0131da, sadece salatada\u2026
\nK\u0131sa bir an, s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 bir etki.
\nYoksa sal\u00e7a olup bir yeme\u011fin kaderini de\u011fi\u015ftirmeyi mi?
\nAlt\u0131na imza atmadan, ad\u0131m an\u0131lmadan, ama herkesin \u201cbu yeme\u011fin tad\u0131 ba\u015fka\u201d dedi\u011fi yerden\u2026
\nD\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm tam olarak burada ba\u015fl\u0131yor.
\nEzilmeyi kay\u0131p sanmakla, ezilmeyi katk\u0131ya \u00e7evirmek aras\u0131ndaki \u00e7izgide.
\nHayat bizi her zaman se\u00e7ti\u011fimiz gibi i\u015flemez.
\nAma biz, ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za geleni neye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrece\u011fimizi se\u00e7eriz.
\nYeni bir de\u011fer oldu\u011fumuzu fark etmek mi, yoksa \u201cben art\u0131k eskisi de\u011filim\u201d diye \u00fcz\u00fclmek mi?
\nBelki de ger\u00e7ek fark\u0131ndal\u0131k \u015fudur:
\nEski h\u00e2limizi kaybetti\u011fimiz i\u00e7in yas tutmak yerine, yeni h\u00e2limizin neye hizmet etti\u011fini g\u00f6rmek.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 insanlar hayatta b\u00fct\u00fcn kal\u0131r ama iz b\u0131rakmaz.
\nBaz\u0131lar\u0131 da da\u011f\u0131l\u0131r, yo\u011funla\u015f\u0131r ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131na tat olur.
\nBen uzun zamand\u0131r \u015funa inan\u0131yorum:
\nDe\u011fer, korunmakta de\u011fil; d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcp katk\u0131 sunabilmekte.
\nVe evet\u2026
\nBazen sal\u00e7a olmak, sadece domates kalmaktan \u00e7ok daha anlaml\u0131d\u0131r.
\nG\u00fcl\u015fah Kara
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