{"id":616,"date":"2026-02-07T09:56:48","date_gmt":"2026-02-07T09:56:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/?p=616"},"modified":"2026-02-07T09:56:48","modified_gmt":"2026-02-07T09:56:48","slug":"calismak-bizde-neden-yuk-degildi-bir-ailenin-emege-dair-hafizasi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/?p=616","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7al\u0131\u015fmak Bizde Neden Y\u00fck De\u011fildi? Bir Ailenin Eme\u011fe Dair Haf\u0131zas\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Eskilerin bir s\u00f6z\u00fc vard\u0131r:<br \/>\n\u201cBo\u015f duran\u0131 \u015feytan kovalar.\u201d<br \/>\nBen bunu ailemiz i\u00e7in biraz daha farkl\u0131 ifade ederim.<br \/>\nKad\u0131n\u0131, erke\u011fi, genci, ya\u015fl\u0131s\u0131\u2026 Bizim geneti\u011fimiz biraz bozuk derim hep; ama bunu bir eksiklik de\u011fil, bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k olarak s\u00f6ylerim.<br \/>\nSelanik g\u00f6\u00e7meni bir ailenin k\u0131z\u0131 olmamdan kaynaklan\u0131yor olabilir.<br \/>\nAnnemin, babam\u0131n ve onlar\u0131n atalar\u0131n\u0131n, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 topraklar\u0131 terk ederken y\u0131llar i\u00e7inde edindikleri her \u015feyi geride b\u0131rak\u0131p gelmelerinin b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir haf\u0131za bu. Bu bir \u201cs\u0131f\u0131rdan ba\u015flama\u201d hik\u00e2yesi de\u011fil; daha \u00e7ok yeniden ba\u015flama bilinci.<br \/>\nS\u0131f\u0131r\u0131 ba\u015fa yazmaktan ziyade, s\u0131f\u0131r\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ne koyabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme h\u00e2li.<br \/>\nBelki de bu y\u00fczden \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak bizim i\u00e7in hi\u00e7bir zaman bir y\u00fck olmad\u0131.<br \/>\nBir zorunluluktan \u00e7ok, hayat\u0131n do\u011fal bir par\u00e7as\u0131yd\u0131.<br \/>\n\u0130nsana de\u011fer katan, yap\u0131lan i\u015fe anlam ekleyen; \u00fcretirken d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyi ve s\u00fcre\u00e7ten tat almay\u0131 \u00f6nemseyen bir yakla\u015f\u0131m olarak \u015fekillendi.<br \/>\nBiz ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 mutlulu\u011fun sonucu olarak de\u011fil,<br \/>\nmutlulu\u011fu \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n i\u00e7inde konumland\u0131rarak anlamland\u0131rd\u0131k.<br \/>\nEkme\u011fin de\u011ferini, onu kazanma bi\u00e7imiyle birlikte d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyi \u00f6\u011frendik.<br \/>\nRahmetli babam\u0131n hayata dair net bir yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 vard\u0131:<br \/>\n\u201cYa sanatk\u00e2r olacaks\u0131n ya zanaatk\u00e2r.\u201d<br \/>\nBunu, bir i\u015fi y\u00fczeysel yapmamakla tamamlar; her \u015feyden biraz bilmenin m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funu ama bir alanda mutlaka derinle\u015fmek gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6ylerdi.<br \/>\n\u00c7al\u0131\u015fmak, bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fal sonucuydu.<br \/>\nYapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u015fin hakk\u0131n\u0131 vermek, kimseye bor\u00e7lu kalmaman\u0131n bir yolu olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcrd\u00fc.<br \/>\nMuhta\u00e7 olmayacak kadar elin ekmek tutmas\u0131, ekme\u011fin k\u0131ymetini bilmekle birlikte onun ger\u00e7ek sahibinin kim oldu\u011funu da unutmamay\u0131 gerektirirdi.<br \/>\nEmanet bilinci, m\u00fclkiyetin \u00f6n\u00fcnde gelirdi.<br \/>\nBiz \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 yaln\u0131zca ekonomik bir faaliyet olarak de\u011fil,<br \/>\nbir sorumluluk ve tutarl\u0131l\u0131k meselesi olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fck.<br \/>\nBu y\u00fczden sevdik \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131.<br \/>\nBabam \u201cBen \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmazsam \u00f6l\u00fcr\u00fcm\u201d derdi.<br \/>\nGer\u00e7ekten de son nefesine kadar \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<br \/>\nYata\u011fa d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre i\u00e7inde hayata veda etti.<br \/>\nHayat\u0131yla s\u00f6yledi\u011fi s\u00f6z aras\u0131nda bir mesafe yoktu.<br \/>\nBize geride para, mal ya da m\u00fclk b\u0131rakmad\u0131.<br \/>\nB\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fey, \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya dair bir anlay\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<br \/>\nOn ya\u015f\u0131ndayd\u0131m.<br \/>\nKasap d\u00fckk\u00e2n\u0131nda elime verilen tala\u015flar\u0131 s\u00fcp\u00fcrmem istendi\u011fi g\u00fcnden beri\u2026<br \/>\n\u00c7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131, hayat\u0131n do\u011fal bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olarak g\u00f6rd\u00fck.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Eskilerin bir s\u00f6z\u00fc vard\u0131r: \u201cBo\u015f duran\u0131 \u015feytan kovalar.\u201d Ben bunu ailemiz i\u00e7in biraz daha farkl\u0131 ifade ederim. Kad\u0131n\u0131, erke\u011fi, genci, ya\u015fl\u0131s\u0131\u2026 Bizim geneti\u011fimiz biraz bozuk derim hep; ama bunu bir eksiklik de\u011fil, bir al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k olarak s\u00f6ylerim. Selanik g\u00f6\u00e7meni bir ailenin k\u0131z\u0131 olmamdan kaynaklan\u0131yor olabilir. Annemin, babam\u0131n ve onlar\u0131n atalar\u0131n\u0131n, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 topraklar\u0131 terk ederken y\u0131llar i\u00e7inde &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":617,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[577,391,129,12],"class_list":["post-616","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-calismaahlaki","tag-emekbilinci","tag-farkindalikizbirakir","tag-narratiqbrand"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Bos-durani-seytan-kovalar.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/616","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=616"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/616\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":618,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/616\/revisions\/618"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/617"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=616"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=616"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=616"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}