\u00d6l\u00fcm gibi bir \u015feydi, kimse \u00f6lmedi.
\nBu d\u00fcnya hepimize yeterdi..!
\nHep klasik bir soru vard\u0131r ya:
\n\u201cYar\u0131n \u00f6lece\u011fini bilseydin, nas\u0131l davran\u0131rd\u0131n?\u201d
\nVe neredeyse hi\u00e7 \u015fa\u015fmaz; cevaplar da ezberden gelir.
\n\u201cSevdiklerimle daha \u00e7ok vakit ge\u00e7irirdim\u2026\u201d
\n\u201cOnlara onlar\u0131 ne kadar sevdi\u011fimi s\u00f6ylerdim\u2026\u201d
\nDevam\u0131 malum. C\u00fcmleler do\u011fru ama g\u00fcvenli. Kimseyi rahats\u0131z etmeyen, kimseyi yerinden oynatmayan cevaplar.
\nBen soruyu ba\u015fka bir yerden sormak istiyorum.
\nYar\u0131n;
\nher g\u00fcn g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz,
\nbelki ayn\u0131 asans\u00f6re bindi\u011finiz,
\nayn\u0131 ofiste selam verip ge\u00e7tiniz,
\nya da bilin\u00e7li olarak g\u00f6rmezden geldi\u011finiz birinin
\n\u00f6lece\u011fini bilseydiniz\u2026
\nHakk\u0131nda fikir y\u00fcr\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz,
\ntav\u0131r ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z,
\netiketledi\u011finiz,
\nbelki de i\u00e7inizden sert c\u00fcmleler kurdu\u011funuz birinin\u2026
\nNe olurdu o kibir?
\nNe olurdu o \u201caman o aramad\u0131ysa ben de aramam\u201dlar?
\nNe olurdu i\u00e7inizde b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz o \u00f6fke?
\nCenazesinde durdu\u011funuzda,
\n\u201cHelal olsun\u201d derken ger\u00e7ekten helal eder miydiniz?
\nYoksa dudaklar\u0131n\u0131z ba\u015fka, i\u00e7iniz ba\u015fka m\u0131 konu\u015furdu?
\nKendinize \u015funu der miydiniz:
\n\u201cEvet, zor biriydi ama\u2026 iyi biriydi.\u201d
\n\u201cBir an\u0131m\u0131z vard\u0131 asl\u0131nda, g\u00fczeldi.\u201d
\n\u201cHi\u00e7 \u015fans vermedim.\u201d
\n\u201cBelki ben biraz daha yumu\u015fak olsayd\u0131m\u2026\u201d
\n\u201cBelki o g\u00fcn o mesaj\u0131 atsayd\u0131m\u2026\u201d
\n\u201cBu kadar gurur yapmasayd\u0131m\u2026\u201d
\n\u201cBir kere \u2018seni anl\u0131yorum\u2019 diyebilseydim\u2026\u201d
\n\u0130nsan \u00f6l\u00fcnce geride kalanlar \u00e7ok da \u00f6nemli de\u011fildir derler.
\nBelki do\u011fru.
\nAma as\u0131l mesele \u015fu:
\n\u00d6lenler de\u011fil, kalanlar neyle kal\u0131r?
\n\u0130\u00e7inizde bir ke\u015fke ile mi?
\nYar\u0131m kalm\u0131\u015f bir c\u00fcmleyle mi?
\nS\u00f6ylenmemi\u015f bir \u201c\u00f6z\u00fcr\u201dle mi?
\nGururun arkas\u0131na saklanm\u0131\u015f bir sevgiyle mi?
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 duygular,
\n\u00f6l\u00fcmden sonra b\u00fcy\u00fcr.
\nBaz\u0131 suskunluklar,
\nmezar ta\u015f\u0131ndan daha a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131r.
\nBelki de mesele yar\u0131n \u00f6lmek de\u011fil.
\nBelki mesele,
\nyar\u0131n biri eksildi\u011finde kendimizle ba\u015f ba\u015fa kal\u0131p kalamayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r.
\nBug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 nefes al\u0131yorken,
\nbiraz daha az yarg\u0131lasak,
\nbiraz daha az kibir yapsak,
\nbiraz daha \u00e7ok insan olsak\u2026
\nBelki de yar\u0131n,
\nkimsenin ard\u0131ndan i\u00e7imizden
\n\u201cKe\u015fke\u2026\u201d demek zorunda kalmay\u0131z.
\nD\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekle kalma.
\nBug\u00fcn bir yerden ba\u015fla.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 c\u00fcmleler,
\nyaln\u0131zca hayattayken anlaml\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00d6l\u00fcm gibi bir \u015feydi, kimse \u00f6lmedi. Bu d\u00fcnya hepimize yeterdi..! Hep klasik bir soru vard\u0131r ya: \u201cYar\u0131n \u00f6lece\u011fini bilseydin, nas\u0131l davran\u0131rd\u0131n?\u201d Ve neredeyse hi\u00e7 \u015fa\u015fmaz; cevaplar da ezberden gelir. \u201cSevdiklerimle daha \u00e7ok vakit ge\u00e7irirdim\u2026\u201d \u201cOnlara onlar\u0131 ne kadar sevdi\u011fimi s\u00f6ylerdim\u2026\u201d Devam\u0131 malum. C\u00fcmleler do\u011fru ama g\u00fcvenli. Kimseyi rahats\u0131z etmeyen, kimseyi yerinden oynatmayan cevaplar. Ben soruyu …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":605,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[129,571,12,572],"class_list":["post-604","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-farkindalikizbirakir","tag-insankalmak","tag-narratiqbrand","tag-yuzlesme"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/anlasilmanin-bir-anlami-kalmadiginda-anlasilmak.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/604","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=604"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/604\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":606,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/604\/revisions\/606"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/605"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=604"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=604"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=604"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}