Sorunlar, onlara y\u00fckledi\u011fimiz anlam kadar b\u00fcy\u00fcyor.
\nBunu bir s\u00fcredir sadece d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor de\u011fil, ya\u015fayarak g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum.
\nAyn\u0131 mesele, birinin hayat\u0131nda derin bir yaraya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrken, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n yoluna devam etmesine engel bile olmuyor.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc mesele \u00e7o\u011fu zaman olan biten de\u011fil; ona hangi yerden bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z.
\nGer\u00e7ek sorunlar var.
\nBunu ink\u00e2r etmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil.
\n\u0130nsan\u0131 yoran, adaletsizlik hissi uyand\u0131ran, emekle, g\u00fcvenle, vicdanla ilgili meseleler\u2026 Bunlar sessizlikle k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fclm\u00fcyor. Aksine, do\u011fru ele al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00fcretmeye en a\u00e7\u0131k alanlar oluyor.
\nGer\u00e7ek sorunlar, ger\u00e7ek \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler ister.
\nS\u00fcsl\u00fc c\u00fcmleler de\u011fil, samimi bir y\u00fczle\u015fme.
\nAma bir de olmayan sorunlar var. Daha do\u011frusu, ki\u015fisel sebeplerle sorunmu\u015f gibi b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fclenler.
\nK\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131klar, egolar, g\u00f6r\u00fcnme arzusu ya da kontrol kayb\u0131 korkusu\u2026
\nBunlar \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bir meseleye de\u011fil, bir duyguya dayan\u0131yor.
\nVe duygular \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm istemez; hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak ister.
\n\u0130\u015fte tam da burada sorun, sorun olmaktan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p bir ara\u00e7 haline geliyor.
\n\u0130nsani de\u011ferlerden uzakla\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a bu ayr\u0131m\u0131 yapmak zorla\u015f\u0131yor.
\nEmpati azald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, herkes kendi hik\u00e2yesini merkeze al\u0131yor.
\nAnlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak yerine savunmaya ge\u00e7iyoruz.
\nB\u00f6yle olunca ger\u00e7ek sorunlar arada kayboluyor; yapay olanlar ise y\u00fcksek sesle kendine yer a\u00e7\u0131yor.
\nG\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fc art\u0131yor ama ilerleme olmuyor.
\nBazen d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum: Belki de yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken, her \u015feye hemen sorun dememek. Bir ad\u0131m geri \u00e7ekilip,
\n\u201cBu ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmesi gereken bir mesele mi, yoksa benim i\u00e7imde \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclememi\u015f bir \u015fey mi?\u201d diye sormak.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her rahats\u0131zl\u0131k ortak bir sorumluluk do\u011furmaz.
\nBaz\u0131lar\u0131 bize aittir ve orada kalmal\u0131d\u0131r.
\nYazmazsam delirirdim dedi\u011fim yer tam da buras\u0131.
\nBu bir yak\u0131nma de\u011fil; bir i\u00e7 yoklama.
\nHayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde, insan kalabilme \u00e7abas\u0131n\u0131n k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir notu.
\nGer\u00e7ek sorunlara ger\u00e7ek \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler bulabilmek i\u00e7in, \u00f6nce olmayanlar\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fctmemeyi \u00f6\u011frenmek gerekiyor.
\nBelki de as\u0131l denge, tam olarak burada ba\u015fl\u0131yor.
\nY\u00fczle\u015febilmeniz umudu ile…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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