Bir insan hakk\u0131nda s\u00f6ylenen tek bir c\u00fcmle, o insan\u0131n yerine ge\u00e7ebilir.
\nDon Miguel Ruiz\u2019in D\u00f6rt Anla\u015fma\u2019da DED\u0130KODU \u00fczerinden anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fey asl\u0131nda bir ileti\u015fim sorunu de\u011fil, bir alg\u0131 \u00fcretme mekanizmas\u0131d\u0131r.
\nZihin deneyimi beklemez; duyguyla y\u00fcklenmi\u015f s\u00f6z\u00fc ger\u00e7ek san\u0131r.
\nBir s\u00f6z kabul edildi\u011fi anda anla\u015fmaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr ve art\u0131k ki\u015fi g\u00f6r\u00fclmez, ki\u015fi hakk\u0131nda olu\u015fturulan alg\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr.
\nRuiz\u2019in bilgisayar vir\u00fcs\u00fc metaforu tam da bunu anlat\u0131r: Vir\u00fcs sistemi bir anda \u00e7\u00f6kertmez, \u00f6nce algoritmay\u0131 bozar. \u0130nsan zihninde de olan budur.
\n\u00d6\u011fretmen \u00f6rne\u011finde oldu\u011fu gibi, ki\u015fi kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakini tan\u0131madan, dinlemeden, deneyimlemeden \u00f6nce karar\u0131n\u0131 vermi\u015ftir ve bu karar\u0131 kendi san\u0131r.
\nOysa karar \u00e7oktan verilmi\u015ftir; sadece bilin\u00e7 d\u0131\u015f\u0131na yerle\u015fmi\u015ftir.
\nBu noktada dedikodu yaln\u0131zca s\u00f6yleyenin de\u011fil, dinleyenin de sorumlulu\u011fudur.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sessizlik de bir anla\u015fmad\u0131r.
\nHiyerar\u015fi devreye girdi\u011finde bu mekanizma daha da g\u00fc\u00e7lenir.
\nYukar\u0131dan gelen s\u00f6z, bir g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f olmaktan \u00e7\u0131kar, bir \u00e7er\u00e7eveye d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. Sorgulanmaz, \u00e7o\u011falt\u0131l\u0131r.
\n\u0130yi niyetle s\u00f6ylenen bir c\u00fcmle bile ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n zihninde mutlak ger\u00e7e\u011fe d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febilir.
\nRuiz\u2019in \u201cKARA B\u00dcY\u00dc\u201d dedi\u011fi \u015fey tam olarak budur: S\u00f6z, bir ki\u015finin zihnine de\u011fil, birden fazla zihne ayn\u0131 anda yerle\u015fir ve mitote b\u00fcy\u00fcr.
\nBu y\u00fczden bu metin \u201cDED\u0130KODU YAPMAYIN \u201d diyen bir ahlak \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fildir; ALGI \u00dcRETME G\u00dcC\u00dc OLANLARA Y\u00d6NELT\u0130LM\u0130\u015e B\u0130R B\u0130L\u0130N\u00c7 UYARISIDIR.
\nBir insan hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fulan her an, sadece o insan de\u011fil, onu dinleyenlerin zihni de bi\u00e7imlenir.
\nGer\u00e7ek deneyimle kurulur, alg\u0131 s\u00f6zle bula\u015f\u0131r ve s\u00f6z en tehlikeli h\u00e2lini g\u00fc\u00e7le birle\u015fti\u011finde al\u0131r.
\nBug\u00fcn bir insan hakk\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcklerimizin ka\u00e7\u0131 ger\u00e7ekten ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zdan, ka\u00e7\u0131 ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcyle zihnimize yerle\u015fti?
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc alg\u0131, en kolay devredilen ama en zor fark edilen g\u00fc\u00e7t\u00fcr.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Bir insan hakk\u0131nda s\u00f6ylenen tek bir c\u00fcmle, o insan\u0131n yerine ge\u00e7ebilir. Don Miguel Ruiz\u2019in D\u00f6rt Anla\u015fma\u2019da DED\u0130KODU \u00fczerinden anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fey asl\u0131nda bir ileti\u015fim sorunu de\u011fil, bir alg\u0131 \u00fcretme mekanizmas\u0131d\u0131r. Zihin deneyimi beklemez; duyguyla y\u00fcklenmi\u015f s\u00f6z\u00fc ger\u00e7ek san\u0131r. Bir s\u00f6z kabul edildi\u011fi anda anla\u015fmaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr ve art\u0131k ki\u015fi g\u00f6r\u00fclmez, ki\u015fi hakk\u0131nda olu\u015fturulan alg\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. Ruiz\u2019in bilgisayar …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":549,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[75],"tags":[36,129,12],"class_list":["post-548","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kitap-degerlendirme","tag-algiyonetimi","tag-farkindalikizbirakir","tag-narratiqbrand"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Don-Miguel-Ruiz-Dort-Anlasma.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=548"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":550,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548\/revisions\/550"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/549"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=548"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=548"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=548"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}