A\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ekmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lan her kad\u0131n, bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi daha g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131lar:
\nCehalet, en \u00e7ok fark\u0131ndal\u0131ktan korkar.
\nKad\u0131nlar bug\u00fcn cehaleti ortadan kald\u0131ran birer \u201cumut fig\u00fcr\u00fc\u201d olarak alk\u0131\u015flanm\u0131yor.
\nTam tersine; d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen, \u00fcreten, sorgulayan, s\u0131n\u0131r \u00e7izen her kad\u0131n; rahats\u0131z edici bulunuyor.<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc cehalet sessizlik ister.
\nKad\u0131n fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ise g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcl\u00fcd\u00fcr.
\nKamuoyunda h\u00e2l\u00e2 ayn\u0131 sahne oynan\u0131yor:
\nKad\u0131n g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ama fazla g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmamal\u0131.
\nZeki ama rahats\u0131z edici sorular sormamal\u0131.
\nBa\u015far\u0131l\u0131 ama erkekleri tedirgin etmemeli.
\nVe mutlaka \u201cdesteklenmesi gereken\u201d bir varl\u0131k olarak konumlanmal\u0131.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zay\u0131f g\u00f6sterilen kad\u0131n, y\u00f6netilebilir kad\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n
En b\u00fcy\u00fck ironi \u015fu:
\nKad\u0131nlar e\u015fitlik aray\u0131\u015f\u0131nda de\u011fil.
\nBunu en iyi kendileri biliyor.
\nOnlar zaten e\u015fit olduklar\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda.
\nMesele e\u015fitlik de\u011fil; h\u00e2l\u00e2 ikinci s\u0131n\u0131f muamele eden zihinlerle ya\u015famak zorunda b\u0131rak\u0131lmalar\u0131.<\/p>\n
Kad\u0131nlara \u201cdestek veriyoruz\u201d diyenlerin bir k\u0131sm\u0131,
\no deste\u011fi ancak kad\u0131n kendini a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 hat\u0131rlatmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcyor.
\nBir noktadan sonra destek, yerini rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa b\u0131rak\u0131yor.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilin\u00e7lenen kad\u0131n; minnet etmez, raz\u0131 olmaz, susmaz.<\/p>\n
Kad\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda olmas\u0131 gereken alan tam da buras\u0131:
\nKim ger\u00e7ekten yan\u0131nda,
\nkim ise yaln\u0131zca onu kontrol edilebilir kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece alk\u0131\u015fl\u0131yor?
\nCehalet, kad\u0131nlar\u0131 susturarak var oldu.
\nCehalet, kad\u0131nlar\u0131 b\u00f6lerek g\u00fc\u00e7lendi.
\nCehalet, kad\u0131nlar\u0131 \u201ciyi niyet\u201d maskesiyle a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ekerek hayatta kald\u0131.
\nAma art\u0131k kad\u0131nlar,
\nkendi seslerinin tonunu biliyor.
\nKendi g\u00f6lgelerinin bile fark\u0131nda.
\nVe en \u00f6nemlisi;
\ncehaletin nerede alk\u0131\u015f tuttu\u011funu, nerede rahats\u0131z oldu\u011funu ay\u0131rt edebiliyor.
\n\u0130\u015fte tam da bu y\u00fczden korkuyorlar.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc fark\u0131nda olan kad\u0131n,
\nhi\u00e7bir d\u00fczen i\u00e7in g\u00fcvenli de\u011fildir.
\nVe belki de as\u0131l ger\u00e7ek \u015fudur:
\nCehaleti ortadan kald\u0131racak olan \u015fey e\u011fitim de\u011fil,
\nkad\u0131n\u0131n kendini hat\u0131rlamas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
A\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ekmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131lan her kad\u0131n, bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi daha g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131lar: Cehalet, en \u00e7ok fark\u0131ndal\u0131ktan korkar. Kad\u0131nlar bug\u00fcn cehaleti ortadan kald\u0131ran birer \u201cumut fig\u00fcr\u00fc\u201d olarak alk\u0131\u015flanm\u0131yor. Tam tersine; d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen, \u00fcreten, sorgulayan, s\u0131n\u0131r \u00e7izen her kad\u0131n; rahats\u0131z edici bulunuyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc cehalet sessizlik ister. Kad\u0131n fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ise g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcl\u00fcd\u00fcr. Kamuoyunda h\u00e2l\u00e2 ayn\u0131 sahne oynan\u0131yor: Kad\u0131n g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ama fazla g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":530,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[541,129,540,12,519],"class_list":["post-529","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-bilinclenmegucu","tag-farkindalikizbirakir","tag-kadinfarkindaligi","tag-narratiqbrand","tag-toplumsaluyanis"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Cehalet-kadindan-korkar-cunku-kadin-ogrenirse-cocugu-da-ogrenir.-Erol-Evgin.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/529","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=529"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/529\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":531,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/529\/revisions\/531"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/530"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=529"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=529"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=529"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}