Hi\u00e7 Kimsenin Sava\u015f\u0131, Kimsenin Olmamal\u0131
\n\u0130nsan kendine d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyan\u0131n g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcs\u00fc bir noktadan sonra anlams\u0131zla\u015f\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc i\u00e7eride bar\u0131\u015f vard\u0131r; bir insan i\u00e7indeki f\u0131rt\u0131nay\u0131 dindirdi\u011finde, d\u0131\u015far\u0131daki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck r\u00fczg\u00e2rlar art\u0131k savuramaz.<\/p>\n
Ama i\u015fte as\u0131l tehlike burada ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n
Baz\u0131 insanlar vard\u0131r\u2026
\nSiz kendi halinizde ya\u015farken, sizi zorla kendi sava\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n cephesine \u00e7ekerler.
\nSonra da filmin sonunda ma\u011fdur koltu\u011funa oturup sizi su\u00e7larlar.
\nBu tipler i\u015f ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131n en g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez, en yorucu krizleridir.<\/p>\n
Onlar kalabal\u0131klarda ya\u015far; hatta kalabal\u0131klar\u0131n aras\u0131ndan filizlenirler.
\nKendi eksikliklerinden s\u0131zan bo\u015fluklar\u0131, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6nd\u00fcrerek kapatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc y\u00fczle\u015fmek zordur.
\nKusurunu kabul etmek cesaret ister.
\nVe ne gariptir ki, acizli\u011fini kabul eden insan say\u0131s\u0131 asl\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczden \u00e7ok daha azd\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Oysa bir y\u00fczle\u015fse\u2026
\nBir kabul etse\u2026
\nBelki de sava\u015f dedi\u011fi \u015fey, ilk ad\u0131mda bitecek.<\/p>\n
Ben kendi sava\u015flar\u0131m\u0131 hi\u00e7 ba\u015flatmad\u0131m.
\nAma bir g\u00fcn fark ettim ki, baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131n yetersizliklerini g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr k\u0131lmak bile \u2014sadece var olmak bile\u2014 onlar i\u00e7in bir tehditmi\u015f. Sessiz sava\u015f\u0131n ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yer tam da buras\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n
Zaman ald\u0131; hatta bazen \u00e7ok zaman\u2026
\nAma bug\u00fcn biliyorum ki:
\nKimsenin g\u00f6rg\u00fcs\u00fczl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, eksikli\u011fini, h\u0131r\u00e7\u0131n bo\u015fluklar\u0131n\u0131 kendime y\u00fck ederek kendimi t\u00fcketemezdim.<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu sava\u015f onlar\u0131n i\u00e7indeydi, benim de\u011fil.<\/p>\n
Ve yine biliyorum:
\nEtraf\u0131m\u0131zda hep b\u00f6yle insanlar olacak.
\nVe fark\u0131na varmadan, bazen biz bile onlardan biri olaca\u011f\u0131z.<\/p>\n
Bu y\u00fczden as\u0131l soru \u015fu:
\nHayattan ne istiyorsun? Nerede duruyorsun? Hangi ortam\u0131n enerjisini i\u00e7ine \u00e7ekiyorsun?<\/p>\n
Ka\u00e7 kere geldin, ka\u00e7 kere yenildin ya da kazand\u0131n hi\u00e7 fark etmez.
\n\u00d6nemli olan \u015fudur:<\/p>\n
Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n sava\u015f\u0131na habersizce s\u00fcr\u00fckleniyorsan, kendine d\u00f6n.
\nKendine d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde sava\u015f bitmiyorsa, oradan uzakla\u015f.
\nUzakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hafifliyorsan, zaten o sava\u015f hi\u00e7 senin olmam\u0131\u015f demektir.<\/p>\n
Kendini korumak bencillik de\u011fil, sa\u011fkal\u0131m stratejisidir.
\nVe bazen bir sava\u015f\u0131n en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc galibiyeti, o sava\u015fa hi\u00e7 girmemektir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hi\u00e7 Kimsenin Sava\u015f\u0131, Kimsenin Olmamal\u0131 \u0130nsan kendine d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyan\u0131n g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcs\u00fc bir noktadan sonra anlams\u0131zla\u015f\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc i\u00e7eride bar\u0131\u015f vard\u0131r; bir insan i\u00e7indeki f\u0131rt\u0131nay\u0131 dindirdi\u011finde, d\u0131\u015far\u0131daki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck r\u00fczg\u00e2rlar art\u0131k savuramaz. Ama i\u015fte as\u0131l tehlike burada ba\u015flar. Baz\u0131 insanlar vard\u0131r\u2026 Siz kendi halinizde ya\u015farken, sizi zorla kendi sava\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n cephesine \u00e7ekerler. Sonra da filmin sonunda ma\u011fdur koltu\u011funa oturup …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":478,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[510,129,509,511,12],"class_list":["post-477","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-duygusalfarkindalik","tag-farkindalikizbirakir","tag-icselbaris","tag-kisiselsinirlar","tag-narratiqbrand"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/tam-pes-etmek-oldugum-bir-gecede-kafamin-icinde-verigim-savasi-zor-da-olsa-kazandim.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/477","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=477"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/477\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":479,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/477\/revisions\/479"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/478"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=477"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=477"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=477"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}