Zihniyet De\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi ve Sorun \u00c7\u00f6zme<\/p>\n
Albert Einstein bo\u015funa demiyor: \u201cProblemi ortaya \u00e7\u0131karan zihniyetle o problemi \u00e7\u00f6zemezsiniz.\u201d
\nE peki o zaman?
\nSorun \u00e7\u00f6zmek isteyenlere d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e soral\u0131m: \u201cSizin zihniyetinizde ne de\u011fi\u015fti?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zihniyet de\u011fi\u015fmeden yap\u0131lan t\u00fcm toplant\u0131lar, at\u0131lan t\u00fcm imzalar, haz\u0131rlanan t\u00fcm raporlar\u2026 kusura bakmay\u0131n ama sadece \u201cg\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fc\u201dd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
Biz genelde puzzle\u2019\u0131n tek bir par\u00e7as\u0131na kafay\u0131 tak\u0131p, \u201cBu niye uymuyor?\u201d diye kendimizi yeriz.
\nAma puzzle tamamlanmaz.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc mesele par\u00e7a de\u011fildir, b\u00fct\u00fcn foto\u011fraft\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Benim oda\u011f\u0131m her zaman b\u00fcy\u00fck resimdir.
\nOlaylarla, ki\u015filerle didi\u015fmek\u2026 hi\u00e7 meziyetim de\u011fil.
\nZihniyetin neyi bar\u0131nd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131na bakar\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o zihniyet zamanla olgunla\u015f\u0131r, konumlara g\u00f6re \u015fekillenir ve sonunda ya bir rahatl\u0131k \u00fcretir\u2026 ya da g\u00f6z g\u00f6re g\u00f6re g\u00f6rmezden gelinen bir sorunu patlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ve evet, d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm sanc\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r.
\nZihniyeti yerle\u015fmi\u015f ortamlarda \u201csorun vard\u0131r\u201d demiyorum ama\u2026 sorunlar \u00e7ok g\u00fczel \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131l\u0131r.
\nHatta ustal\u0131kla sahneye konur.<\/p>\n
Savunmaya ge\u00e7enler olur.
\nDe\u011fi\u015fime direnenler sald\u0131r\u0131ya kalkar.
\nAyn\u0131 hatay\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc kez tekrarlay\u0131p h\u00e2l\u00e2 \u201cBenlik bir \u015fey yok\u201d diyen bile \u00e7\u0131kar.
\n(\u0130\u015fte burada hiciv devreye giriyor ama onu da dozunda b\u0131rakal\u0131m.)<\/p>\n
Tam olarak bu noktada devreye bir ger\u00e7ek girer:
\nD\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm, kimsenin menfaatine dokunmadan y\u00f6netilemez.
\nVe menfaati rahats\u0131z eden her hareket manip\u00fclasyon olarak paketlenir.<\/p>\n
Bu y\u00fczden \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm odakl\u0131l\u0131k bir meziyet de\u011fil; bir zorunluluktur.<\/p>\n
Mel Robbins\u2019in 5 Saniye Kural\u0131 burada harika bir re\u00e7ete sunuyor:
\n\u201c5-4-3-2-1\u201d deyip harekete ge\u00e7mek.
\nErtelemeden.
\nKi\u015filere tak\u0131lmadan.
\nDrama \u00fcretmeden.
\nKayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc konu\u015farak.<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek \u015fu:
\nSorunlarla oyalanmak zaman kayb\u0131d\u0131r.
\nDrama ile u\u011fra\u015fmak para kayb\u0131d\u0131r.
\nZihniyet de\u011fi\u015ftirmek ise yat\u0131r\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n
O zaman soru basit:
\nBug\u00fcn \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z sorun i\u00e7in\u2026
\nSizin zihniyetinizde ne de\u011fi\u015fti?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Zihniyet De\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi ve Sorun \u00c7\u00f6zme Albert Einstein bo\u015funa demiyor: \u201cProblemi ortaya \u00e7\u0131karan zihniyetle o problemi \u00e7\u00f6zemezsiniz.\u201d E peki o zaman? Sorun \u00e7\u00f6zmek isteyenlere d\u00fcr\u00fcst\u00e7e soral\u0131m: \u201cSizin zihniyetinizde ne de\u011fi\u015fti?\u201d \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zihniyet de\u011fi\u015fmeden yap\u0131lan t\u00fcm toplant\u0131lar, at\u0131lan t\u00fcm imzalar, haz\u0131rlanan t\u00fcm raporlar\u2026 kusura bakmay\u0131n ama sadece \u201cg\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fc\u201dd\u00fcr. Biz genelde puzzle\u2019\u0131n tek bir par\u00e7as\u0131na kafay\u0131 tak\u0131p, \u201cBu …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":468,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[505,129,503,12,504],"class_list":["post-467","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-cozumodaklilik","tag-farkindalikizbirakir","tag-kurumsaldonusum","tag-narratiqbrand","tag-zihniyetdegisimi"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/Problemi-ortaya-cikaran-zihniyetle-o-problemi-cozemezsiniz.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/467","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=467"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/467\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":469,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/467\/revisions\/469"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/468"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=467"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=467"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=467"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}