{"id":422,"date":"2026-02-02T13:15:38","date_gmt":"2026-02-02T13:15:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/?p=422"},"modified":"2026-02-02T13:15:38","modified_gmt":"2026-02-02T13:15:38","slug":"kirdigin-aynada-liderlik-gorunmez-empatiyi-parcalayan-guc-zehirlenmesi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/?p=422","title":{"rendered":"K\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n Aynada Liderlik G\u00f6r\u00fcnmez: Empatiyi Par\u00e7alayan G\u00fc\u00e7 Zehirlenmesi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">K\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z Ayna Size G\u00fcl\u00fcmser mi?<br \/>\nBeynimizdeki ayna n\u00f6ronlar, \u00e7evremizdeki davran\u0131\u015f ve duygular\u0131 yans\u0131tan g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez sens\u00f6rler gibidir.<br \/>\n\u0130\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda da bu durum birebir ge\u00e7erlidir: Empatik bir liderin tavr\u0131 ekibine sirayet eder; otoriter bir liderin bask\u0131s\u0131 ise kurumu sessizli\u011fe bo\u011far.<br \/>\nAma baz\u0131 y\u00f6neticiler bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi bilse de bilmezden gelir \u2014 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc o aynaya bakmak, kendi \u00e7arp\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmek demektir.<\/p>\n<p>Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn\u2026<br \/>\n\u00c7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131na sistematik mobbing uygulayan bir y\u00f6netici:<br \/>\nToplant\u0131larda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmser, her f\u0131rsatta su\u00e7lar, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lay\u0131c\u0131 tav\u0131rlar\u0131 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k haline getirir.<br \/>\nSonra ertesi g\u00fcn hi\u00e7bir \u015fey olmam\u0131\u015f gibi davran\u0131r.<br \/>\nYetmezmi\u015f gibi, ma\u011fdur etti\u011fi \u00e7al\u0131\u015fandan bir de empati bekler.<br \/>\nSanki o ki\u015fi gelip \u201cNeden b\u00f6yle yap\u0131yorsunuz?\u201d diye sormal\u0131ym\u0131\u015f gibi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan sessiz kal\u0131rsa, senaryo hemen de\u011fi\u015fir:<br \/>\nY\u00f6netici al\u0131n\u0131r, tav\u0131r al\u0131r, etiketler.<br \/>\n\u201cBenimle konu\u015fmad\u0131.\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cEkiple ileti\u015fimi zay\u0131f.\u201d<br \/>\nArd\u0131ndan dedikodu ba\u015flar; kurumun di\u011fer birimlerine servis edilen bir itibar men\u00fcs\u00fc haz\u0131rlan\u0131r.<br \/>\nKendini ma\u011fdur, ma\u011fdurunu ise \u201cproblemli \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u201d ilan eder.<br \/>\nK\u0131sacas\u0131, hem k\u0131rar hem k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 aynaya k\u00fcser.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra da \u00e7\u0131kar ve liderlikten, empati k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnden, kurum de\u011ferlerinden bahseder&#8230;<br \/>\nOysa k\u0131r\u0131lan g\u00fcvenin sesi, y\u00f6neticinin sesinden her zaman daha y\u00fcksektir.<\/p>\n<p>Unutmay\u0131n: Unvan empatiyi zorunlu k\u0131lmaz, karakter kazand\u0131r\u0131r.<br \/>\nEmpati bekliyorsan, \u00f6nce empati g\u00f6ster.<br \/>\nSayg\u0131 istiyorsan, \u00f6nce sayg\u0131 duy.<br \/>\nAyna n\u00f6ronlar bu konuda ac\u0131mas\u0131zd\u0131r \u2014<br \/>\nNe yayarsan, onu g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn.<\/p>\n<p>Ve unutma&#8230;<br \/>\nK\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n ayna sana asla g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemez.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>K\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z Ayna Size G\u00fcl\u00fcmser mi? Beynimizdeki ayna n\u00f6ronlar, \u00e7evremizdeki davran\u0131\u015f ve duygular\u0131 yans\u0131tan g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez sens\u00f6rler gibidir. \u0130\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda da bu durum birebir ge\u00e7erlidir: Empatik bir liderin tavr\u0131 ekibine sirayet eder; otoriter bir liderin bask\u0131s\u0131 ise kurumu sessizli\u011fe bo\u011far. 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