\u201cYanl\u0131\u015f \u00fcslup, do\u011fru s\u00f6z\u00fcn cellad\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d
\nBu s\u00f6z\u00fc ilk duydu\u011fumda, sadece ileti\u015fimi de\u011fil, hayat\u0131n her alan\u0131ndaki \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n k\u00f6kenini bir c\u00fcmleyle anlatabildi\u011fini fark ettim.<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcn yine sabah saatlerinde kendime sordum:
\n\u201cYa\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir\u00e7ok sorunun alt\u0131nda ger\u00e7ekten ne yat\u0131yor?\u201d<\/p>\n
Cevap, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmden daha sade ama bir o kadar da derin:
\n\u0130leti\u015fim eksikli\u011fi de\u011fil sadece, ileti\u015fim bilinci eksikli\u011fi\u2026<\/p>\n
\u0130leti\u015fim, sadece s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerle ba\u015flam\u0131yor.
\nK\u0131yafetimize g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimiz \u00f6zeni, beden dilimize, ses tonumuza, dinleme \u015feklimize ne kadar yans\u0131tabiliyoruz?
\nD\u0131\u015far\u0131dan \u00e7ok \u015f\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrken, i\u00e7imizdeki sab\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131k, \u00f6fke ya da \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck \u00e7abas\u0131\u2026 bir \u015fekilde su y\u00fcz\u00fcne \u00e7\u0131km\u0131yor mu?<\/p>\n
Bir s\u00fcredir bu alanda hem okuyor hem de kendi ileti\u015fim tarz\u0131m\u0131 g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7iriyorum.
\nNerede hata yap\u0131yorum?
\nHangi manip\u00fclasyonlara maruz kal\u0131yorum?
\nNeden baz\u0131 ortamlarda anlatmak de\u011fil, kendini anlatmaktan yorgun d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyorum?<\/p>\n
Bu sorgulamalar beni \u015fu noktalara getirdi:<\/p>\n
\u0130leti\u015fimde bir standart olabilir mi?
\nSayg\u0131 dili, ki\u015fiye g\u00f6re mi de\u011fi\u015fmeli?
\nKurum k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcnde \u201cbiz hep b\u00f6yleyiz\u201d kal\u0131b\u0131, olmas\u0131 gerekenin \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7meli mi?
\nUyum sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in kabala\u015fmak zorunda m\u0131y\u0131z?<\/p>\n
Kimi zaman bir kurumun \u201cinformal yap\u0131s\u0131\u201d bahanesiyle, samimiyet ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda hoyratl\u0131klar\u0131n ileti\u015fim dili haline geldi\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz.
\nPeki o kurumda \u201colmas\u0131 gereken\u201d i\u00e7in \u00e7abalayanlar ne yapmal\u0131?<\/p>\n
\u0130\u015fte bu noktada ileti\u015fimci kimli\u011fimiz devreye giriyor.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ileti\u015fim, sadece aktar\u0131m de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcmd\u00fcr.
\nVe bu d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fcn ilk halkas\u0131 yine kendimiziz.<\/p>\n
\u0130leti\u015fim, anlamaya niyetle ba\u015flar. Anla\u015f\u0131lmak i\u00e7in de\u011fil, anlamak i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z her yolda d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Sahi biz ne ara bu kadar kaba, anlay\u0131\u015fs\u0131z ve sadece g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fte dinleyen bir toplum olduk?
\nDinlemeyi, anlamay\u0131, \u00f6zenli olmay\u0131 yeniden \u00f6\u011frenebilir miyiz?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u201cYanl\u0131\u015f \u00fcslup, do\u011fru s\u00f6z\u00fcn cellad\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d Bu s\u00f6z\u00fc ilk duydu\u011fumda, sadece ileti\u015fimi de\u011fil, hayat\u0131n her alan\u0131ndaki \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n k\u00f6kenini bir c\u00fcmleyle anlatabildi\u011fini fark ettim. Bug\u00fcn yine sabah saatlerinde kendime sordum: \u201cYa\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir\u00e7ok sorunun alt\u0131nda ger\u00e7ekten ne yat\u0131yor?\u201d Cevap, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmden daha sade ama bir o kadar da derin: \u0130leti\u015fim eksikli\u011fi de\u011fil sadece, ileti\u015fim bilinci eksikli\u011fi\u2026 \u0130leti\u015fim, sadece s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerle …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":189,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[224,129,222,200,86,12,223],"class_list":["post-188","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-dogruuslup","tag-farkindalikizbirakir","tag-iletisimbilinci","tag-kisiselfarkindalik","tag-kurumkulturu","tag-narratiqbrand","tag-saygiliiletisim"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Yanlis-uslup-dogru-sozun-celladidir.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/188","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=188"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/188\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":190,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/188\/revisions\/190"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/189"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=188"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=188"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=188"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}