Tavuk mu yumurtadan \u00e7\u0131kar, yumurta m\u0131 tavuktan?
\nBa\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 nas\u0131l tan\u0131mlars\u0131n\u0131z?
\nYa da daha \u00f6nemlisi; bir \u015feyde ger\u00e7ekten ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011funuza sizi kim, nas\u0131l ikna eder?<\/p>\n
Ben kendimi kolay kolay \u201cba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z\u201d oldu\u011fuma ikna edemeyenlerdenim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bence ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda bir rekabet alan\u0131 yaratmak i\u00e7in \u00fcretti\u011fimiz yarg\u0131lardan ibaret.
\nTabi “Sizi ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olarak tan\u0131mlayan, hatta ‘beceremez’ deyip o u\u00e7urumdan atan; denemenizden bile, sizin ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131zdan korkan, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ete kemi\u011fe b\u00fcr\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f hallerini de unutmay\u0131n. :)”<\/p>\n
Belki de sorun burada ba\u015fl\u0131yor.
\nKendimizi yeterince tan\u0131m\u0131yoruz.
\nYeteneklerimizin fark\u0131nda de\u011filiz.
\nVe \u00e7o\u011funlukla mecbur kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u015fler y\u00fcz\u00fcnden, kendi hik\u00e2yemizin kahraman\u0131 olam\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n
Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn; ka\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z ger\u00e7ekten hayalini kurdu\u011fu i\u015fi se\u00e7erek bug\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat\u0131nda var oldu? Bu konu asl\u0131nda \u00f6yle ince, \u00f6yle derin ki\u2026 ucu e\u011fitim sistemimize kadar uzan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
Ama ben ba\u015fka bir yerden soraca\u011f\u0131m:
\nBa\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011funuzda mutlu musunuz? Yoksa \u201cba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d diye yava\u015f yava\u015f t\u00fckenenlerden mi?<\/p>\n
Hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00f6yle oldu mu mesela; mutlu oldu\u011funuz i\u00e7in ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011funuz bir deneyiminiz?
\nBa\u015fard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda sizi besleyen, sizi ger\u00e7ekten motive eden \u015fey neydi?
\nBa\u015far\u0131 an\u0131nda kendinize ve \u00e7evrenize kar\u015f\u0131 vicdanen huzurlu muydunuz?<\/p>\n
Asl\u0131nda derdim bu soruya yan\u0131t almak de\u011fil.Derdim, sizin de kendinizi sorgulaman\u0131z.Belki de bu sorular, sizde bug\u00fcne kadar a\u00e7mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birka\u00e7 kap\u0131y\u0131 aralar.<\/p>\n
\u201cYa yeni bir yol bulaca\u011f\u0131z, ya yeni bir yol yapaca\u011f\u0131z\u201d diyen Hannibal’\u0131 hat\u0131rlay\u0131n.
\nKendinizi ke\u015ffedin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Tavuk mu yumurtadan \u00e7\u0131kar, yumurta m\u0131 tavuktan? Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 nas\u0131l tan\u0131mlars\u0131n\u0131z? Ya da daha \u00f6nemlisi; bir \u015feyde ger\u00e7ekten ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu\u011funuza sizi kim, nas\u0131l ikna eder? Ben kendimi kolay kolay \u201cba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z\u201d oldu\u011fuma ikna edemeyenlerdenim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bence ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda bir rekabet alan\u0131 yaratmak i\u00e7in \u00fcretti\u011fimiz yarg\u0131lardan ibaret. Tabi “Sizi ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olarak tan\u0131mlayan, hatta …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":172,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[206,207,6,210,211,209,208,212],"class_list":["post-171","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-basarimutluluk","tag-basarisizlikalgisi","tag-farkindalik","tag-gercekbasari","tag-hayatyolu","tag-icmotivasyon","tag-kendinikesfet","tag-yargilar"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Basarisizlik-bize-yol-gosterir-yolun-hangisi-olmadigini-gostererek.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/171","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=171"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/171\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":173,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/171\/revisions\/173"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/172"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=171"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=171"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=171"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}