\ud83d\udd0d Ayn\u0131 De\u011fil. Ama Sessiz.
\nKurum k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc meselesi, \u00f6yle birdenbire \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ma.
\nY\u0131llar i\u00e7inde, dinleyerek, g\u00f6rerek, bazen susarak\u2026 ama hep i\u00e7ime yazarak geldi bu noktaya.
\n\u00d6yle ki, zaman\u0131nda ertelenmi\u015f bir \u00f6\u011frenim s\u00fcrecimi bile tamamlamaya karar verdim.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc fark ettim ki,
\n\u0130nsan bazen kendine tak\u0131l\u0131r, ama yolculu\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kmaya orada ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n
\u0130\u015f hayat\u0131m boyunca hep ayn\u0131 ilkeyle y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcm:
\n\ud83d\udee0 \u00c7\u0131rakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n hi\u00e7bir i\u015fin ustal\u0131\u011f\u0131na soyunma.
\nSahan\u0131n tozunu yutmadan, masan\u0131n iki taraf\u0131nda da oturmadan, i\u015fin \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc bilmeden \u201cideal ki\u015fiyim\u201d iddias\u0131na girme.
\nVe biz buna halk aras\u0131nda h\u00e2l\u00e2 en sade haliyle \u201chaddini bilmek\u201d diyoruz. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n
Peki bu meseleye neden bu kadar kafa yordum?
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ne zaman \u201cOlmas\u0131 gereken bu de\u011fil\u201d desem,
\nNe zaman \u201cY\u00f6n yanl\u0131\u015f\u201d desem,
\nNe zaman \u201cPer\u015fembenin geli\u015fi \u00e7ar\u015fambadan belli\u201d desem\u2026
\nCevap hep ayn\u0131yd\u0131:
\n\u201cHer yer ayn\u0131.\u201d<\/p>\n
Ama de\u011fil.
\nVe hep s\u00f6yledim, h\u00e2l\u00e2 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum:
\nHer yer ayn\u0131 de\u011fil.
\nSadece susan \u00e7ok.
\nSorgulayan az.<\/p>\n
“Ka\u00e7 y\u0131ld\u0131r ayn\u0131 yerdesin?” dedi\u011fim insanlar oldu.
\nKimisi hayat\u0131n\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7te birini tek bir yap\u0131da ge\u00e7irmi\u015f, kimisi ilk g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc k\u00fclt\u00fcrle yetinmi\u015f.
\nAl\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131k istikrara kar\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f, konfor alan\u0131 \u201csadakat\u201d gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f.
\nAma ben biliyorum ki,
\nAl\u0131\u015fmakla aidiyet ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n
Benim yolculu\u011fum, y\u00fczeyde \u00e7ok sessiz, ama derinde \u00e7ok hareketliydi.
\nBir g\u00fcnde olmad\u0131.
\nNe \u00f6\u011frendiklerim tesad\u00fcft\u00fc,
\nNe de de\u011fi\u015ftirdiklerim.
\nBen konfor alan\u0131m\u0131 terk etti\u011fimde, pe\u015finden bir unvan kovalamad\u0131m;
\n\u00d6nce yeniden \u00e7\u0131rak oldum.
\nYeni sekt\u00f6re ad\u0131m att\u0131m.
\nKendime, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerime, y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcme sahip \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m.<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcn 20 y\u0131ll\u0131k ini\u015fli \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015fl\u0131 bir yolun ard\u0131ndan \u00e7ok net s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum:
\nHi\u00e7bir yer kusursuz de\u011fil.
\nAma kusurlar\u0131n normalle\u015fti\u011fi, yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n g\u00f6rmezden gelindi\u011fi yerlerde
\nk\u00fclt\u00fcrden s\u00f6z etmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil.<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kurum k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc bir afi\u015f de\u011fil, bir davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\nBir b\u00fclten de\u011fil, bir tav\u0131rd\u0131r.
\nBir \u201cde\u011ferler listesi\u201d de\u011fil, \u00e7ay molas\u0131nda payla\u015f\u0131lan hislerdir.<\/p>\n
\ud83d\udccc Ve k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerde, sistemler i\u015flemiyor.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sistemler y\u00f6netir,
\nAma k\u00fclt\u00fcr y\u00f6n verir.<\/p>\n
Bug\u00fcn bulundu\u011fum noktada ne bir rastlant\u0131 var ne bir “k\u0131smet”.
\nBen bu noktaya susmayarak, sorgulayarak, \u00f6\u011frenerek geldim.
\nTesad\u00fcfen de\u011fi\u015fmedim.
\nBilerek, isteyerek, bazen yaln\u0131z kalarak ama hep fark\u0131nda olarak yol ald\u0131m.<\/p>\n
\u015eimdi d\u00f6n\u00fcp kendime sordu\u011fum soruyu sana da soray\u0131m:
\nBulundu\u011fun yerde ger\u00e7ekten var m\u0131s\u0131n, yoksa sadece duruyor musun?<\/p>\n
Tad\u0131m\u0131z ka\u00e7mas\u0131n diye konu\u015fulmayan her \u015fey,
\nBir g\u00fcn gelip bizi de bulur.<\/p>\n
Ve unutma:
\nKurum k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc herkes konu\u015ftu\u011funda de\u011fil, herkes sustu\u011funda anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\ud83d\udd0d Ayn\u0131 De\u011fil. Ama Sessiz. Kurum k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc meselesi, \u00f6yle birdenbire \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ma. Y\u0131llar i\u00e7inde, dinleyerek, g\u00f6rerek, bazen susarak\u2026 ama hep i\u00e7ime yazarak geldi bu noktaya. \u00d6yle ki, zaman\u0131nda ertelenmi\u015f bir \u00f6\u011frenim s\u00fcrecimi bile tamamlamaya karar verdim. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc fark ettim ki, \u0130nsan bazen kendine tak\u0131l\u0131r, ama yolculu\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kmaya orada ba\u015flar. \u0130\u015f hayat\u0131m boyunca hep ayn\u0131 ilkeyle …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":121,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[129,130,131,86,91],"class_list":["post-117","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-farkindalikizbirakir","tag-heryeraynidegil","tag-kulturcokusu","tag-kurumkulturu","tag-sessizlik"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/Akilini-gonlunun-degerleriyle-yoneten-insan-yasaminin-efendisidir-Dogan-Cuceloglu.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/117","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=117"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/117\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":122,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/117\/revisions\/122"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/121"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=117"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=117"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=117"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}