\ud83e\ude9e Beni Nas\u0131l Bilirsiniz?
\nKli\u015fe gibi gelebilir ama bu sorunun i\u00e7tenlikle sorulabilmesini hep k\u0131ymetli bulmu\u015fumdur.<\/p>\n
G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta birbirimize bolca iltifat eder, \u201cSen \u00f6yle g\u00f6r\u00fcyorsun\u201d gibi kibarl\u0131kla kamufle edilmi\u015f ama samimiyetini sorgulatan cevaplarla ge\u00e7i\u015ftiririz. Oysa ger\u00e7ek \u015fu ki: Bizler birbirimizin aynas\u0131y\u0131z.
\nVe bu y\u00fczden \u201cBakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n benim, g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sensin\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fcne bay\u0131l\u0131r\u0131m.<\/p>\n
Bu giri\u015fin bir sebebi var.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc t\u0131pk\u0131 \u00e7o\u011fumuz gibi, ben de bana ait olmayan etiketleri ta\u015f\u0131yorum.
\n\u00c7o\u011fu da \u201csempatik\u201d de\u011fil. Ama ya\u015famay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendim onlarla. \ud83d\ude42
\nYine de size bir s\u0131r vereyim mi? Maske kullanmay\u0131 hi\u00e7 beceremedim.
\nModa bile olsa, kendime yak\u0131\u015fmayan\u0131 giymemek gibi bir huyum var.<\/p>\n
Mesela \u201cfeminist\u201d oldu\u011fum s\u00f6ylenir. Ard\u0131ndan \u201chuyumun de\u011fi\u015fik\u201d oldu\u011fu da eklenir.
\nDe\u011fi\u015fik miyim? Olabilir.
\nAma s\u0131radanl\u0131k bana g\u00f6re de\u011fil. Ayn\u0131la\u015fmak, ba\u015fkas\u0131na benzemek ya da birini taklit etmek\u2026
\nHepsi \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fc t\u00f6rp\u00fcl\u00fcyor. Belki de bu y\u00fczden, etiketlere hep alayc\u0131 bir mesafem var.<\/p>\n
Ama ciddiye ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir konu varsa, o da \u015fu:
\n\ud83d\udc69\ud83c\udffb\u200d\ud83d\ude80 Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n toplumdaki yeri.
\nFeminist miyim bilmem ama, her platformda e\u015fitlikten yanay\u0131m.<\/p>\n
Ve a\u00e7\u0131k konu\u015fay\u0131m:
\nArt\u0131k kad\u0131nlar\u0131n s\u00fcrekli \u201czavall\u0131, aciz, k\u0131r\u0131lgan\u201d gibi g\u00f6sterilmesinden \u00e7ok yoruldum.
\nHer projede, her ileti\u015fim kampanyas\u0131nda bu alg\u0131n\u0131n bilin\u00e7alt\u0131m\u0131za servis edilmesinden de.
\nKad\u0131n ya da erkek demiyorum art\u0131k.
\nBen bir bireyim.<\/p>\n
\ud83c\udf93 Kad\u0131n pilot mezun olunca pilot, kad\u0131n m\u00fchendislik okuyunca m\u00fchendis olur.
\n\ud83d\ude8d Ehliyeti olan kad\u0131n, otob\u00fcs de s\u00fcrer, t\u0131r da.
\n\ud83d\udcaa Kurtulu\u015f Sava\u015f\u0131\u2019ndan bug\u00fcne tarih tan\u0131kt\u0131r: Kad\u0131nlar bu \u00fclkenin belkemi\u011fidir.<\/p>\n
O h\u00e2lde bir ricam var:
\nKad\u0131nlar\u0131n ba\u015fard\u0131\u011f\u0131 her \u015feyi ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc birer olay gibi sunmaktan vazge\u00e7elim art\u0131k.
\nKonu\u015fulacak bir \u015fey varsa;
\n\u2705 Kad\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fil, onu h\u00e2l\u00e2 \u201cola\u011fand\u0131\u015f\u0131\u201d bulan zihniyettir.
\n\u2705 Erkeklerin kad\u0131na bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 konu\u015fal\u0131m.
\n\u2705 Reklamlarda \u201cm\u0131\u015f gibi\u201d yapmayal\u0131m.
\n\u2705 E\u015fitli\u011fi bir sosyal sorumluluk projesi gibi de\u011fil, bir ya\u015fam ger\u00e7e\u011fi gibi savunal\u0131m.<\/p>\n
Ve belki de en \u00f6nemlisi:
\nKad\u0131n kad\u0131n\u0131n kurdu de\u011fil, yol arkada\u015f\u0131d\u0131r.
\n\u201cKad\u0131n\u0131n akl\u0131 k\u0131t\u201d, \u201celiyle erkek i\u015fine kar\u0131\u015fma\u201d gibi c\u00fcmleler yerine,
\nBirlikte b\u00fcy\u00fcmeyi, birlikte g\u00fc\u00e7lenmeyi \u00f6\u011frenelim.<\/p>\n
Ama bunu yaparken;
\n\ud83d\udc64 Stat\u00fc fark etmeksizin,
\n\ud83d\udde3 \u00dcslubumuzu bozmadan,
\n\ud83d\udcac Nezaketi elden b\u0131rakmadan\u2026<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ek d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm; sesimizi de\u011fil, dilimizi g\u00fczelle\u015ftirmekle ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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