{"id":1044,"date":"2026-02-21T05:39:03","date_gmt":"2026-02-21T05:39:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/?p=1044"},"modified":"2026-02-21T05:39:03","modified_gmt":"2026-02-21T05:39:03","slug":"insan-iliskilerini-abarttikca-abarttik-ama-en-cok-da-zorlastirdik-sabah-saatlerinde-cok-deger-verdigim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/?p=1044","title":{"rendered":"\u0130nsan \u0130li\u015fkilerini Abartt\u0131k\u00e7a Abartt\u0131k\u2026 Ama En \u00c7ok da Zorla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131k Sabah saatlerinde \u00e7ok de\u011fer verdi\u011fim…"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u0130nsan \u0130li\u015fkilerini Abartt\u0131k\u00e7a Abartt\u0131k\u2026 Ama En \u00c7ok da Zorla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131k<\/p>\n

Sabah saatlerinde \u00e7ok de\u011fer verdi\u011fim bir arkada\u015f\u0131m ile konu\u015furken, ikimizde de ayn\u0131 anda bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131k belirdi:
\nBirbirimize asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok da \u00f6nem vermedi\u011fimizi zannederken, fark\u0131nda olmadan birbirimize ne b\u00fcy\u00fck anlamlar y\u00fckledi\u011fimizi g\u00f6rd\u00fck.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde \u201cMerhaba\u201d, \u201cG\u00fcnayd\u0131n\u201d, \u201cKolay gelsin\u201d demekten bile imtina eder h\u00e2le gelmi\u015fiz. Ayn\u0131 havay\u0131 soluyor, ayn\u0131 toplant\u0131larda kahkahalar at\u0131yor; ama yaln\u0131z koridorlarda, asans\u00f6rlerde birbirimize g\u00f6rmezden gelme mesafesi koyuyoruz.
\nSamimiyeti de\u011ferden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcren, mesafeyi g\u00fc\u00e7 sanan bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr yaratm\u0131\u015f\u0131z kendimize.<\/p>\n

Herkesin birbirine otorite kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131, yan yana g\u00f6r\u00fcnmekten bile \u00e7ekinilen; iki g\u00fczel s\u00f6z\u00fcn \u201cde\u011fer kayb\u0131\u201d gibi alg\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir d\u00fczen h\u00e2kim.
\n\u015eeffaf ileti\u015fimin tehlike olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, kimin yan\u0131nda konu\u015fup kimin yan\u0131nda susaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hesaplad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, zihinlerimizin \u201cne der, nas\u0131l alg\u0131lar, kim g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u201d kayg\u0131lar\u0131yla dolup ta\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ortam\u2026<\/p>\n

Sonu\u00e7?
\nHerkes birbirine anlam y\u00fckl\u00fcyor ama kimse kimseye asl\u0131nda de\u011fer vermiyor.
\nVe t\u00fcm bu kurgunun ortas\u0131nda i\u015fimizi bile ki\u015fiye g\u00f6re yapar h\u00e2le geliyoruz.<\/p>\n

Oysa\u2026<\/p>\n

Her g\u00fcne yeniden do\u011far gibi ba\u015flasak,
\n\u0130lk i\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczm\u00fc\u015f gibi \u00f6zen g\u00f6stersek,
\nMarket kasiyerine, garsona, taksi \u015fof\u00f6r\u00fcne g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimiz nezaketi birbirimize de g\u00f6stersek\u2026
\n\u0130li\u015fkilerimizin ne kadar sade, ne kadar huzurlu, ne kadar insani olabilece\u011fini hayal bile edemiyoruz.<\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7birimiz birbirimizin akl\u0131ndaki anlamlar kadar de\u011filiz.
\nHepimiz kendi i\u00e7imizde koca bir d\u00fcnya kadar ya\u015far ve ya\u015fat\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Belki de insan ili\u015fkilerini zorla\u015ft\u0131ran biziz;
\nKolayla\u015ft\u0131racak olan\u00a0da\u00a0yine\u00a0biziz.
\n <\/a> \u0131\u011f\u0131<\/a> \u0131ndal\u0131ki<\/a>\u0307zb\u0131rak\u0131r <\/a> <\/a><\/a><\/p>\n

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\u0130nsan \u0130li\u015fkilerini Abartt\u0131k\u00e7a Abartt\u0131k\u2026 Ama En \u00c7ok da Zorla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131k<\/p>\n

Sabah saatlerinde \u00e7ok de\u011fer verdi\u011fim bir arkada\u015f\u0131m ile konu\u015furken, ikimizde de ayn\u0131 anda bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131k belirdi:
\nBirbirimize asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok da \u00f6nem vermedi\u011fimizi zannederken, fark\u0131nda olmadan birbirimize ne b\u00fcy\u00fck anlamlar y\u00fckledi\u011fimizi g\u00f6rd\u00fck.<\/p>\n

G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde \u201cMerhaba\u201d, \u201cG\u00fcnayd\u0131n\u201d, \u201cKolay gelsin\u201d demekten bile imtina eder h\u00e2le gelmi\u015fiz. Ayn\u0131 havay\u0131 soluyor, ayn\u0131 toplant\u0131larda kahkahalar at\u0131yor; ama yaln\u0131z koridorlarda, asans\u00f6rlerde birbirimize g\u00f6rmezden gelme mesafesi koyuyoruz.
\nSamimiyeti de\u011ferden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcren, mesafeyi g\u00fc\u00e7 sanan bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr yaratm\u0131\u015f\u0131z kendimize.<\/p>\n

Herkesin birbirine otorite kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131, yan yana g\u00f6r\u00fcnmekten bile \u00e7ekinilen; iki g\u00fczel s\u00f6z\u00fcn \u201cde\u011fer kayb\u0131\u201d gibi alg\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir d\u00fczen h\u00e2kim.
\n\u015eeffaf ileti\u015fimin tehlike olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, kimin yan\u0131nda konu\u015fup kimin yan\u0131nda susaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hesaplad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, zihinlerimizin \u201cne der, nas\u0131l alg\u0131lar, kim g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u201d kayg\u0131lar\u0131yla dolup ta\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ortam\u2026<\/p>\n

Sonu\u00e7?
\nHerkes birbirine anlam y\u00fckl\u00fcyor ama kimse kimseye asl\u0131nda de\u011fer vermiyor.
\nVe t\u00fcm bu kurgunun ortas\u0131nda i\u015fimizi bile ki\u015fiye g\u00f6re yapar h\u00e2le geliyoruz.<\/p>\n

Oysa\u2026<\/p>\n

Her g\u00fcne yeniden do\u011far gibi ba\u015flasak,
\n\u0130lk i\u015f g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczm\u00fc\u015f gibi \u00f6zen g\u00f6stersek,
\nMarket kasiyerine, garsona, taksi \u015fof\u00f6r\u00fcne g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimiz nezaketi birbirimize de g\u00f6stersek\u2026
\n\u0130li\u015fkilerimizin ne kadar sade, ne kadar huzurlu, ne kadar insani olabilece\u011fini hayal bile edemiyoruz.<\/p>\n

Hi\u00e7birimiz birbirimizin akl\u0131ndaki anlamlar kadar de\u011filiz.
\nHepimiz kendi i\u00e7imizde koca bir d\u00fcnya kadar ya\u015far ve ya\u015fat\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Belki de insan ili\u015fkilerini zorla\u015ft\u0131ran biziz;
\nKolayla\u015ft\u0131racak olan\u00a0da\u00a0yine\u00a0biziz.
\n <\/a> \u0131\u011f\u0131<\/a> \u0131ndal\u0131ki<\/a>\u0307zb\u0131rak\u0131r <\/a> <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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