{"id":1013,"date":"2026-02-18T17:35:42","date_gmt":"2026-02-18T17:35:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/?p=1013"},"modified":"2026-02-18T17:35:42","modified_gmt":"2026-02-18T17:35:42","slug":"son-zamanlarda-ebeveynlerin-en-cok-konustugu-konu-sucocuklar-okulda-zorbaliga-maruz-kaliyor-herkes-birini","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/?p=1013","title":{"rendered":"Son zamanlarda ebeveynlerin en \u00e7ok konu\u015ftu\u011fu konu \u015fu:\u201c\u00c7ocuklar okulda zorbal\u0131\u011fa maruz kal\u0131yor.\u201d Herkes birini…"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Son zamanlarda ebeveynlerin en \u00e7ok konu\u015ftu\u011fu konu \u015fu:\u201c\u00c7ocuklar okulda zorbal\u0131\u011fa maruz kal\u0131yor.\u201d
\nHerkes birini su\u00e7luyor.
\nDi\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131.
\nDi\u011fer aileleri.
\n\u00d6\u011fretmeni.
\nSistemi.
\nPeki biz?
\nBiz yeti\u015fkinler ger\u00e7ekten masum muyuz?
\nKurumsal hayatta \u015funu \u00e7ok net g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum:
\nZorbal\u0131k \u00e7ocuklukta ba\u015flam\u0131yor.
\nZorbal\u0131k yeti\u015fkin d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda ustala\u015f\u0131yor.
\nToplant\u0131da s\u00f6z kesmek.
\nFikri k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemek.
\nBirini g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez yapmak.
\nArkas\u0131ndan konu\u015fup y\u00fcz\u00fcne g\u00fclmek.
\nBa\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fersizle\u015ftirmek.
\nY\u00fckselen birine \u201ckim bilir nas\u0131l y\u00fckseldi\u201d imas\u0131 b\u0131rakmak.
\nBunlar\u0131n hi\u00e7biri fiziksel de\u011fil.
\nAma hepsi psikolojik.
\nVe \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ad\u0131 bile konmuyor.
\nBiz yeti\u015fkinler, kendi s\u00f6yleyemedi\u011fimiz eksikleri ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinden \u00f6rtmeyi \u00e7ok iyi biliyoruz.
\nKendi yetersizliklerimizi, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n karakterini tart\u0131\u015farak telafi etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz.
\nKendi cesaretsizli\u011fimizi, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n itibar\u0131n\u0131 a\u015f\u0131nd\u0131rarak dengeliyoruz.
\nSonra da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n okulda zorbal\u0131k yapmas\u0131ndan \u015fik\u00e2yet ediyoruz.
\n\u00c7ocuk model al\u0131r.
\nModel evde ba\u015flar, i\u015f yerinde devam eder, g\u00fcndelik hayat\u0131m\u0131zda normalle\u015fip ya\u015fam alanlar\u0131m\u0131za sirayet eder.
\nDedikodu k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc olan bir kurumda etik beklemek ne kadar ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i?
\nK\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n rekabet diye sunuldu\u011fu bir ortamda sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 liderlik m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc?
\nSessiz d\u0131\u015flaman\u0131n \u201cprofesyonellik\u201d diye paketlendi\u011fi yerde g\u00fcven in\u015fa edilebilir mi?
\nBenim bir d\u00fcsturum var:
\nHerkes \u00f6nce kendi kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc temizlemeli.
\nAma bunu yaparken \u00e7\u00f6p\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne atmadan.
\nKurumsal hayatta en s\u0131k g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm \u015fey \u015fu:
\n\u0130nsanlar kendi hik\u00e2yelerini b\u00fcy\u00fctmek i\u00e7in ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hik\u00e2yesini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.
\nOysa ger\u00e7ek g\u00fc\u00e7, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 bast\u0131rmadan da var olabilmektir.
\nGer\u00e7ek liderlik, g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez zorbal\u0131k yapmadan da etkili olabilmektir.
\nGer\u00e7ek olgunluk, eksiklerini ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinden de\u011fil, kendinle y\u00fczle\u015ferek tamamlamakt\u0131r.
\nE\u011fer yeni neslin daha bilin\u00e7li, daha adil, daha \u015fefkatli olmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorsak,
\n\u00f6nce yeti\u015fkin d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n dilini d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmeliyiz.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar zorba do\u011fmaz.
\nZorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n normalle\u015ftirildi\u011fi iklimlerde b\u00fcy\u00fcrler.
\nVe bazen en sert zorbal\u0131k, kravatl\u0131d\u0131r.
\nEn incitici olan\u0131, \u201cprofesyonel\u201d bir tonla s\u00f6ylenir.
\nBelki de bug\u00fcn kendimize sormam\u0131z gereken soru \u015fu:
\nBen kurumsal hayatta hangi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131mla g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez bir zorbal\u0131k \u00fcreticisiyim?..
\n…<\/a><\/p>\n

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Son zamanlarda ebeveynlerin en \u00e7ok konu\u015ftu\u011fu konu \u015fu:\u201c\u00c7ocuklar okulda zorbal\u0131\u011fa maruz kal\u0131yor.\u201d
\nHerkes birini su\u00e7luyor.
\nDi\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131.
\nDi\u011fer aileleri.
\n\u00d6\u011fretmeni.
\nSistemi.
\nPeki biz?
\nBiz yeti\u015fkinler ger\u00e7ekten masum muyuz?
\nKurumsal hayatta \u015funu \u00e7ok net g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum:
\nZorbal\u0131k \u00e7ocuklukta ba\u015flam\u0131yor.
\nZorbal\u0131k yeti\u015fkin d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda ustala\u015f\u0131yor.
\nToplant\u0131da s\u00f6z kesmek.
\nFikri k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemek.
\nBirini g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez yapmak.
\nArkas\u0131ndan konu\u015fup y\u00fcz\u00fcne g\u00fclmek.
\nBa\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fersizle\u015ftirmek.
\nY\u00fckselen birine \u201ckim bilir nas\u0131l y\u00fckseldi\u201d imas\u0131 b\u0131rakmak.
\nBunlar\u0131n hi\u00e7biri fiziksel de\u011fil.
\nAma hepsi psikolojik.
\nVe \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ad\u0131 bile konmuyor.
\nBiz yeti\u015fkinler, kendi s\u00f6yleyemedi\u011fimiz eksikleri ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinden \u00f6rtmeyi \u00e7ok iyi biliyoruz.
\nKendi yetersizliklerimizi, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n karakterini tart\u0131\u015farak telafi etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz.
\nKendi cesaretsizli\u011fimizi, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n itibar\u0131n\u0131 a\u015f\u0131nd\u0131rarak dengeliyoruz.
\nSonra da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n okulda zorbal\u0131k yapmas\u0131ndan \u015fik\u00e2yet ediyoruz.
\n\u00c7ocuk model al\u0131r.
\nModel evde ba\u015flar, i\u015f yerinde devam eder, g\u00fcndelik hayat\u0131m\u0131zda normalle\u015fip ya\u015fam alanlar\u0131m\u0131za sirayet eder.
\nDedikodu k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fc olan bir kurumda etik beklemek ne kadar ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i?
\nK\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131n rekabet diye sunuldu\u011fu bir ortamda sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 liderlik m\u00fcmk\u00fcn m\u00fc?
\nSessiz d\u0131\u015flaman\u0131n \u201cprofesyonellik\u201d diye paketlendi\u011fi yerde g\u00fcven in\u015fa edilebilir mi?
\nBenim bir d\u00fcsturum var:
\nHerkes \u00f6nce kendi kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc temizlemeli.
\nAma bunu yaparken \u00e7\u00f6p\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne atmadan.
\nKurumsal hayatta en s\u0131k g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm \u015fey \u015fu:
\n\u0130nsanlar kendi hik\u00e2yelerini b\u00fcy\u00fctmek i\u00e7in ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hik\u00e2yesini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.
\nOysa ger\u00e7ek g\u00fc\u00e7, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 bast\u0131rmadan da var olabilmektir.
\nGer\u00e7ek liderlik, g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez zorbal\u0131k yapmadan da etkili olabilmektir.
\nGer\u00e7ek olgunluk, eksiklerini ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerinden de\u011fil, kendinle y\u00fczle\u015ferek tamamlamakt\u0131r.
\nE\u011fer yeni neslin daha bilin\u00e7li, daha adil, daha \u015fefkatli olmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorsak,
\n\u00f6nce yeti\u015fkin d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131n dilini d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmeliyiz.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar zorba do\u011fmaz.
\nZorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n normalle\u015ftirildi\u011fi iklimlerde b\u00fcy\u00fcrler.
\nVe bazen en sert zorbal\u0131k, kravatl\u0131d\u0131r.
\nEn incitici olan\u0131, \u201cprofesyonel\u201d bir tonla s\u00f6ylenir.
\nBelki de bug\u00fcn kendimize sormam\u0131z gereken soru \u015fu:
\nBen kurumsal hayatta hangi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131mla g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez bir zorbal\u0131k \u00fcreticisiyim?..
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View this on Instagram Son zamanlarda ebeveynlerin en \u00e7ok konu\u015ftu\u011fu konu \u015fu:\u201c\u00c7ocuklar okulda zorbal\u0131\u011fa maruz kal\u0131yor.\u201d Herkes birini su\u00e7luyor. Di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131. Di\u011fer aileleri. \u00d6\u011fretmeni. Sistemi. Peki biz? Biz yeti\u015fkinler ger\u00e7ekten masum muyuz? Kurumsal hayatta \u015funu \u00e7ok net g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum: Zorbal\u0131k \u00e7ocuklukta ba\u015flam\u0131yor. Zorbal\u0131k yeti\u015fkin d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda ustala\u015f\u0131yor. Toplant\u0131da s\u00f6z kesmek. Fikri k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemek. Birini g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez yapmak. Arkas\u0131ndan konu\u015fup …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1014,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1013","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/1013-son-zamanlarda-ebeveynlerin-en-cok-konustugu-konu-sucocuklar-okulda-zorbaliga-maruz-kaliyor-herkes-birini.webp","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1013","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1013"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1013\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1014"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1013"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1013"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/narratiqbrand.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1013"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}